Few weeks ago, a Lord was put in touch with me and told me that I had a son who loved soccer but I had a problem and that if he could go see him play to advise you about the future of the child. I asked him that it was more or less and the told me that her son loved football but that the saw had no conditions to become a footballer, and that if he could teach him some things and skills to have a chance to become professional. I asked him how many years had the child and told me that 9. Uff, thought I, that error by the father, as you may think that your child will not be footballer at that age if the child wants is have fun and play with his friends. There is the first mistake, parents. Because we put that pressure, because we want to live our children kindergarten and put him in the head a thought or a frustrated dream or not of an adult.
You have a problem said Mr. But the problem is you, not your child.
The purpose of this article is the provide guidance for action against insecurity and indecision experienced by our children, players or students. There are different degrees, but all of them cause them anxiety, avoid to think clearly in moments of stress and have a high self-esteem and self-concept in their daily lives.
The character and environment of each child affect their ability to make decisions and solve problems. Insecurity is not always linked to the sociability of the child, it can be that it occurs not in all areas (sports, educational, relational...); It may be related to its lack of ability to carry out certain activities, simply because it is not mature enough to catch the limelight or do not want to be the protagonist.